To me, companionship defines marriage. Its more than just role-playing.

I should be able to look up to the guy. Should be able to say once in a while, You inspire me.

Mutual respect. To be able to speak one's mind without the fear of being judged, ridiculed. That's an open and healthy relation.

Space. That we can give ample of, to each other.
Trust. Understanding.
Sensibility.
To be able to give without much thought.

I'm a li'l old school.

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You could be a boy next door or the Maharaja's son. Frankly my dear, I give a damn. What matters to me is if you have got what it takes. If you do, then well....welcome onboard.

So far, the going has been good. The best part is he's got a good analytical ability and perception. He scored a bonus there.

So here's the list:

Good in analysis (this definitely ensures that he cant be led into a trap by unscrupulous individuals) (+1)
Has the right mindset to make it work(+1)
Realizes his mistake and takes corrective action(+1)
Practical
Fitness freak
Tenacious(works for me)
Creatively inclined(can expect piano lessons in future)
Open to suggestions
is perceptive
and...







 

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The hunt has begun. The manhunt. D'ya get the picture?

I am clear about what I want. What remains to be seen is whether I get what I want or if I will have to settle for something less. I am what I am. A modern, progressive, feminist of a woman.

But then, when you know what you are looking for, you are on the right track. That tells me I can rest a bit. 

I realize after one month of being into this thing that it involves lot of hard work. Last time, I was afraid to work hard and I had to pay the price for being lazy. Too heavy a price. This time, I will leave no stone unturned.
Bet ya.

 

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Hey me,

You haven't been doing much these days. You had a plan to eat oil-less food this month, didn't you?

Let's see. You can do better than what you have done these past few days, eating gobi manchurian, couple of samosas, jilepi, etc.

Though you did a good job of making fish stew and dal which were bland.
You walked many miles.

You need to be more careful in the next 22 days.

And you need to begin writing again.

Take care and love you always.


 

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